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Judy Millar's avatar

What an important, valuable post.

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

Thank you, Judy.

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David Charles's avatar

Pretty goddamned sad situation when you have to tell, teach, and reinforce the fact that the American “justice system” has become the people’s enemy.

Now, I’m not saying don’t trust a cop. I am saying NEVER trust a cop. And this is crucially urgent if you have a loved one who has a tendency to be overly gullible in the honesty of others.

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

You are right, David. It is very, very difficult for those of us who love someone with autism to protect them in situations that involve the police. My son is very trusting and gullible as well and, while it would be much better if the police were trained to deal with people like him, they're not, so it's up to me to keep reinforcing certain behaviors to try and keep him safe.

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Bonnie B Matheson's avatar

Thank you! This is horrifying. But I no longer trust the law or the government to be fair or even use common sense. I am so sorry this happened to you and your son. I will pray for you!

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

Thanks Bonnie. Prayers are always appreciated!

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David Perlmutter's avatar

That's why I shared it just now on my social media contacts.

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

David, thank you!!!

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Marsha Melkonian's avatar

shared with the adult sibling support group I told you about (sibnet on facebook) for those with siblings who might be in danger this way, thanks.

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

Thank you so much, Marsha!

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David Perlmutter's avatar

There have been so many incidents in America and elsewhere in the recent past that could have been avoided if the victims could have abided by these guidelines. It's not like the police are completely innocent on the count of assaulting arrested people, but their most common victims make it worse for themselves by provoking them.

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Susan McCorkindale's avatar

I agree with you, David. I hope people will read this and take it to heart and talk with their kids.

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